Did you know that whatever hardships and obstacle's come our way, God can work them all to our benefit?
All things, of every kind, that happen to us, are overruled by God for his good! That is of course as qualified by our loving God and being called according to his purpose.
Romans 8;28 And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.
This process requires That we make a solid decision to love God and sacrifice our sinful desires and behaviors in submission to the details of God's purpose for us.
Well, Now you may be asking how will I know what Gods purpose for me is?
There is no unusual special technique or spiritual practice needed in order to discover what God's purpose is for our lives. Just Pray asking to know God's purpose for your life. Search the scriptures “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light for my path” (Psalm 119:105). Seek the guidence of the Holy Spirit. John 16:13 Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth, is come, he will guide you into all truth: for he shall not speak of himself; but whatsoever he shall hear, that shall he speak: and he will shew you things to come. (to be led by the Spirit is to choose voluntarily and consciously to submit to the Word of God.)
Come into an understanding of Gods great purpose for ones self, and whatever we are dealing with comes under the jurisdiction of the Almighty who will work all things together for our benefit.